There is such an unnecessary stigma surrounding dating an older woman. Is she a cougar? Doesnt she want kids? Isnt she looking for serious commitment? Of course these things are minor issues in the background, but there are so many wonderful things about dating a woman older than you.
Older women bring so much to the table; not only are they sexier, more confident and more mature than your average 21 year old bombshell, shes also way more likely to get you.
Here are 11 great reasons why you should definitely be looking to date an older woman. Trust me gents, its the way forward.
1. She has her own money
Being that little bit older, these women often have their own money. Deeper into their careers and with more experience under their belts, they are not always looking for a guy who can pay the bill and whisk her off her feet. If anything, the roles are reversed a little bit. They have the power.
2. She is mature, and she doesnt need any drama
Older women are obviously more mature than those young girls youve been dating. Once you reach a certain age, you realise that relationship drama and game-playing is bullshit, so dont expect them to rant and rave about why you didnt call them. These ladies know the benefit of keeping this chilled and straightforward.
3. She knows her way around the bedroom
Sex is all about practice; so with that in mind, older women are gurus compared to you. She has the skills, the knowledge and the experience between the sheets to make sure you never go back to younger women ever again. Now thats a massive tick in the pros column.
4. Shes can hold her own anywhere
A family gathering, a work event, a friends birthday – older women wont be scared to pitch in, make small talk and get acquainted with people. Younger women tend to need babysitting at these sorts of events, whereas an older woman has done this a million times before and doesnt need you to hold her hand throughout. You cant put a price on this confidence and ability to hold her own.
5. She has her own life
She wont be calling you every two minutes to make plans and arrange dates, because she has her own shit going on. Younger women will want you as much as possible, often to the detriment of your friendships. Older women on the other hand are more than happy to let you have a few days off to see your mates, purely because she wants to do exactly the same thing. Winner winner.
6. She doesnt move in a herd
Young women are pack animals. One cant do anything without either informing or inviting a swathe of other young ladies. Older women on the other hand dont need other peoples approval to go out, they do what they want and dont feel the need to stick to their best friends hip.
7. She has actually lived a little
Older women can teach you a whole lot if you let them. Remember gents, these ladies have been there, done that and have the t-shirt, often making great sounding boards for ideas and decisions. Sometimes its nice to spend time with someone who has lived a little, and therefore knows what is important, and what isnt.
8. Knows about the finer things in life
As a 20-something man, your knowledge of fine wines and Michelin dining might not be quite up to scratch. An older woman can change all that. With her own money and far more experience than you, she can introduce you to the finer things in life, without all that pretentious bullshit you normally have to put up with.
9. Shell definitely get on with your Mum
It might sound a little weird, but older women will definitely have more in common with your dear old Mum. Obviously finding someone your Mum approves of is really nice, so why not go for a woman closer to her in age? Im not saying date her best friend, but someone who shares adult interests and can relate to an older generation is always good.
10. Shes secure in herself
Shes had enough time to become secure in her appearance and body, so shes not likely to need constant validation from you. Its so much easier to date a woman who likes herself, a quality often lacking in the young and immature.
11. She can hold a decent conversation
She knows about politics, she has voted in quite a few elections, she reads newspapers for fun – older women can hold a decent conversation about things that actually matter. I mean, chatting with a young hottie about her favourite indie band is great, but Id rather discuss music with someone who wants to compare and contrast The Arctic Monkeys and The Beatles. You know, real talk.
So there you have it, older women are the actual tits. They are better in bed, they know more, they can impress your Mum and you dont need to constantly babysit them. Young girls might be a massive attraction, but trust me gentlemen, you need to be looking at the more mature lady for your next liaison. Obviously every coupling has its limits, here are 19 signs that you are stuck in a dead end relationship
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